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Building a Strong Relationship with your Designer: Self-Reflection, Trust & Communication

Starting with some self-reflection to understand what truly matters to you, we've outlined a handful of key success factors that should follow. So grab a cup of coffee, get comfy, and let's dive into the art of collaborating with your designer to bring your dream space to life!

 

Stepping into the world of design and renovation can be nerve-racking, confusing but also exciting! It’s kind of like having to choreograph a dance routine. Except imagine you have no experience in dance (or maybe you don’t have to imagine and just know that as a fact). It’s safe to assume you’d probably need help choreographing that routine. And even if you're not a novice, just because you can remember all the steps to Michael Jackson’s ‘Thriller’ doesn’t automatically grant you the status of dance instructor.


A key element in successfully completing any unfamiliar task or project is consulting with a professional. When it comes to renovating your kitchen, building a new home, or anything in between, that professional will be a designer. Keeping with our theme of dance, building a strong relationship with a designer is like finding the perfect dance partner; it’s all about trust, understanding, and a good dose of communication. Without further ado, let’s waltz our way into some steps on how to get there.


Disclaimer: Please forgive us for the gut-wrenching corniness of these analogies and note that more will follow.

Photo Credit: Elmwood Design Centre | Elmwood Group

Self-Reflection: What Matters Most to You?

Just like with any relationship, building a connection is a two way street. Make sure you’re starting with a little self-reflection to help keep your priorities in check. It’s important to do this early on - even before you start working with a designer - to avoid confusion down the line. Setting clear expectations with yourself will make it easier to communicate ideas to your designer.


Questions to think of asking yourself could be:


  • Is price the top priority?

  • Are you all about quality and craftsmanship?

  • Do you value professionalism and past experience?

  • Is finishing the project on time your main goal?


Setting your priorities straight will help you understand what to look for and what questions to ask when choosing your designer. Remember, you don’t have to settle. Be firm on your expectations and make choices based on what you value most. Yes, there might be some trade-offs, but knowing what you want will help guide you through.


Photo Credit: Elmwood Design Centre | Elmwood Group

Trust in Expertise

Now that you've prioritized your needs and figured out what you want, bringing those ideas confidently to your designer should be easy. But the next stepping stone in building this successful relationship is: trusting your designer’s expertise.


They’re like the Yoda of home design: there to answer your questions, solve problems, and help you think big picture. Your designer has likely seen it all (and survived to tell the tale), so trust their recommendations and decisions. They’re not just making educated guesses; they’re drawing from real life experiences.


Honesty and Transparency

You’ve heard the famous Spider-Man quote, “with great power comes great responsibility” but have you also heard of “with total trust comes total honesty”?


No? That’s because we just made that up (but we think it'll become just as famous).


Trust and honesty go hand in hand with each other. Being upfront and honest about your budget, vision and any worries you might have will in turn build a strong client-designer relationship. A good designer will appreciate your openness and work with you to create solutions that fit your needs. Staying transparent with each other ensures no surprises for either party, maintaining a smooth journey from start to finish


Photo Credit: Elmwood Design Centre | Elmwood Group

High Communication Levels

Communication is the heartbeat of any successful design project. Sharing your style preferences, functionality needs, lifestyle considerations, and color schemes are great places to start. As the project moves forward, keep the conversation going. Your designer needs to fully understand your vision to make it come to life. And remember: they're not mind readers.


But like we keep saying, proper communication is a two-way street. Be open to your designer’s suggestions. They might offer ideas you hadn’t thought of, based on their seasoned expertise. And those ideas might end up being your favourite part of the final project. So keep those lines of communication open to make sure you're both on the same page throughout the project.


Photo Credit: Elmwood Design Centre | Elmwood Group

See how all these elements seem to tie together? With self-reflection comes honesty, with honesty comes the ability to communicate, with communication comes trust.... you get our point. Each practice can be used interchangeably - with both designer and client - making the renovation you thought was going to be a headache, a breeze.


To summarize, building a strong relationship with your designer is about trust and collaboration. By understanding what matters most to you, being honest and transparent, and maintaining high levels of communication, you’re setting the stage for a fantastic partnership. Trust your designer’s expertise, embrace the process, and together you’ll create a space that truly reflects your vision and personality.


Remember, it’s not just about the final product; it’s about the journey to get there. And with the right relationship, bringing your dream project to life can be quite simple.





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